How often do you hear someone say “I’d never be able to go out with them, they’re way out of my limit” or do you say/think “s/he’s way too good for me” ?
Well stop! NOW.
Where have we all gotten this from? Thinking that others are better than us for some reason or another? Is it because they’re more attractive than you, maybe they are more intelligent, confident, happy etc.
Nobody on this planet has the right to say that people are above or below them on some metaphorical scale. Everyone is equal, there isn’t a single reason why you cant date or even talk to your crush. (unless they are already in a relationship that is. If they are just be patient, the relationship may end or you might have to just settle for a solid friendship.)
That cutie on the bus? Just go talk to them. Heck I don’t know maybe even Zac bloody Efron if that’s what you’re into. 🙂 (although, it may be hard to get close to him and initiate some sort of relationship.) If you like someone the only thing standing between you and them is you. If you say to yourself that they’re too good for you then you haven’t got any chance with them have you. You’ve quit before you have even tried.
If you’re reading this thinking of that special someone you haven’t had the confidence to talk to, just do it. Please. 🙂 You deserve happiness.
Life is to short to wonder “what if” Living means taking risks (by that I do not mean running across the road! 😉 ) So many opportunities are missed by people who are too scared to jump. Take the leap of faith, I promise that 99.9% of the time you wont regret it.
And if you take my advice and it goes horribly wrong, at least you know where you stand with this person. It may take an awkward conversation but it will be worth it.
There’s this guy on my bus, that sometimes gets on in the morning as I’m on my way to work. He’s cute, maybe ill take my own advice..Maybe 😉
Smile…it really wont hurt you!! 🙂